System is in the big circle of circulation and it defines the boundaries and inside procedures of the circus. Simultaneously, it is on the main page to be blamed. Though it is an abstract noun yet blamed and criticized as a sole structure.
Family System
How do you think to discuss it in todays’ page of writing to analyze our thoughts about it? It is a vast terminology but we will centralize it to the family system. Let’s begin the talk about the family system. Family system can be defined by you, his/her, and me differently but I believe the majority of us would call it the perfect one. It has remained the concern of philosopher as well who have given their time and energy to define it. I would like to quote Murray Bowen who was an American psychiatrist and a professor. He has presented a theory about the family system in that he says that: “theory is a theory of human behavior that defines the family unit as a complex social system in which members interact to influence each other’s behavior.” He has called the family unit a complex social system but I would call it the perfect unit of the social system. And I highly agree with him that the members of the family influence one another.
How it is perfect that is the topic of our discussion. Remember we are talking about a family that is going to be a part of our history not present. A child is born in a family and that is family has the leadership of grandparents who welcome the child of their child and celebrate it with grant gratefulness and happiness. The mother of the child is cared for and trained how to handle the matters. The father is instructed to ensure love and care to the child and his/her mother. The child gets his/her first hearing practice with the lines of the oneness of Almighty from the elder one. . Every small thing is of great concern about the child. Like how the child is to be fed with and when to give him/her other nutrients. When he/she has to sleep, how to hold the child and how to respond to his/her cries. Every aspect is highly deal and the child turns into youth and then into an adult and manhood.
The child is a blank page in which the family has to formulate laws for his/her lifetime. And the pen with the family members is the permanent one that cannot be erased. The child is in the world but his/her actual production stage starts from his/her birth. The child cannot be taught but he/she acquires the things. What is presented in front of him/her is a learning pack for them and that is for a lifetime. The heads of the family are responsible for the presentation and acquisition by the child. It depends upon the family member how much integrity they are inculcating in him/her. How they are developing his/her conscience, and what level of dignity they are putting into him/her. The amalgamation of all these elements leads the child to enter into the outer world and present the system of the family. Whatever kind of system the child has seen in his/her family he/she will consider that all and all and will try to implement that in every other system where he moves. The way a behavioral change in an individual of the family affects the whole family implies the same in every other system.
If there is a well-developed family system then the individual coming out of that family can develop a better system in every circle. But the grass-root level system is not of the mandate then how can you expect that individual to build a well-formed system in his/her life. Whatever attitude the individual is portraying is the direct portray of his/her family. Remember individuals are the parts of the systems and there is no system without the individuals. And the world is the largest form of family that needs all the aspects of an individual family system. If every individual contributes on his/her behalf then there would be a perfect system full of love, care, devotion, dignity, discipline, and everything. Now carry on the discussion with your opinions of a family system.
